tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-27491069.post114675238870228577..comments2023-02-10T09:23:46.778-05:00Comments on Everyone Deserves the Chance to Fly: How can I leave?Marenhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13966671147913653475noreply@blogger.comBlogger11125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-27491069.post-1147270332824370912006-05-10T10:12:00.000-04:002006-05-10T10:12:00.000-04:00Having lived in both DC and NYC myself, I would sa...Having lived in both DC and NYC myself, I would say you are correct. DC introduced me to the world, because I met so much of the world when I lived there. However, NYC is the world. Everyone is represented and their world mixes with our world. Everyone can be themselves, and no one expects you to change. On the train yesterday I watched a man preach to everyone that Jesus was coming, as an orthodox Jewish man sat quietly reciting things from the Torah, and the lady next to me read her romance novel, while I was reading the Ensign. (Not being particularly righteous, but only having the Ensign because most of my books are now packed.) In DC, most people tried to fit into the DC world, where in NYC everyone stays in their world and accepts that others stay in their world. <BR/>Both places have their wonderful things, and I love DC. I guess I could say that to me DC is America and NYC is the world.Marenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13966671147913653475noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-27491069.post-1147234780786592512006-05-10T00:19:00.000-04:002006-05-10T00:19:00.000-04:00I concur with your comments regarding New York! I...I concur with your comments regarding New York! <BR/><BR/>If I may wax poetic a bit: <BR/><BR/>New York is in my blood. Never will I be so affected by a place I am living. There is this bizarre New York mentality that I am trying to put into words. It is true that there is a whole world that exists outside of The Big Apple...but when you are in New York (specifically living there) you come to an understanding that New York <B>is</B> the world. <BR/><BR/>Now that I am living in Washington DC, I am going through New York withdrawals...My eyes are again being opened to the rest of the world. This process will take time, but progress is being made.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-27491069.post-1147202579355870542006-05-09T15:22:00.000-04:002006-05-09T15:22:00.000-04:00The other day I saw on the news that the Lincoln T...The other day I saw on the news that the Lincoln Tunnel was moving well, and the camera showed the cars at almost a standstill, so I still imagine Utah to be better. Where it may take an hour to go 30 miles in Utah, it can take over an hour to go 10 miles here. <BR/>I know your ward is very diversified, Dad, which makes me glad to be moving to your ward. <BR/>I know the family is looking forward to us being there, so I am excited for that.Marenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13966671147913653475noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-27491069.post-1147146937054162272006-05-08T23:55:00.000-04:002006-05-08T23:55:00.000-04:00Well, for one I am glad to have you move back. It...Well, for one I am glad to have you move back. It'll make seeing my new grandchild much easier. You'll find a lot less of the stares for mixed marriages. Our Bishop is Tongan, and his wife is Caucasian. We have 2 men in the Ward with Japanese wives, and 2 women in the Ward with African Ameican husbands, and we have a new couple where he is Venezualan, and she is Caucasian. A Filipino-Caucasian couple won't make a dent in this Ward. And many others have similar situations. <BR/><BR/>Most people here realize now that many women have to work to pay for houses, their children's education, etc., so you'll find a lot of women in any ward you move to that are working, too. There is nothing wrong with furthering your education either.<BR/><BR/>When Commuter Rail AND the Legacy Highway are done (you'll be excited to see the work is actually going forward and visible as you drive down I-15) it will be much easier to get to and from Davis County and Salt Lake City and surrounding suburbs. Right now, though, it is so crowded on the Freeway that when you add an accident or 2 or some construction the commute comes to a full stop on some occasions. I know you are used to long commutes on the subway, but it is a little different where you are behind the wheel trying to control your progress and having that control hindered. But perseverance wins out in the end, and the commuters get to their destinations.<BR/><BR/>You'll get back to NYC on visits, I am sure, because we continue to go their ourselves. It is just a fun place to visit, and we have to see the best of the plays on Broadway before they make the national tours. It is just a must do to go see them on Broadway.<BR/><BR/>Just be careful packing, loading, and driving.<BR/><BR/>We are looking forward to you coming, and then we will be really happy when Arwin arrives to make it all complete.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-27491069.post-1146837281410476972006-05-05T09:54:00.000-04:002006-05-05T09:54:00.000-04:00Or, as I suggested, you could just move to Salt La...Or, as I suggested, you could just move to Salt Lake, Chrissy! Sure I will check out your blog. <BR/>Rebecca, I agree completely that going to church should be the point, not where you go. The nice part about small wards is that they don't care who you are, they are just glad to have another person. Large Utah wards make it easy to get lost in shuffle, or worse a person can be judged if they do not "fit in" because of their marital status, clothing choice, etc. Hence my comment about missing women in pants and people with tatoos at church.Marenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13966671147913653475noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-27491069.post-1146810713025241862006-05-05T02:31:00.000-04:002006-05-05T02:31:00.000-04:00I have the perfect solution. You could always mov...I have the perfect solution. You could always move to Denver. HEHEHE! In the Chrissy's dreams right....oh well, at least I'll get to see you more often. That's always a good thing. Oh, one more thing....I'll read your blog if you read mine. HAHAHA! www.chrissaroo.blogspot.com<BR/>Love ya babe! I'll see you soon hopefully. Too bad we'll miss each other by a week.Chrissy Johttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13843048333521275209noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-27491069.post-1146796946962587682006-05-04T22:42:00.000-04:002006-05-04T22:42:00.000-04:00I am also moving from Brooklyn, NY to UT. I have ...I am also moving from Brooklyn, NY to UT. I have to admit that I have my reservations as well. I would really prefer to attend a family ward when I return to UT. However, since I didn't obtain a husband in NY (as predicted by friends when I left UT to move to NY), I know I'll just have to deal with the fact that many people will want to know why I don't attend one of the singles' wards. But I discovered that family wards have an awesome capacity to become just like an extended family, if you'll let them. While I have attended singles'/student (yes, there is a difference) wards before and there was a great sense of unity there, its a different feeling. Family wards have members of all ages and from all walks of life, making the ward experience, at least for me, more varied and interesting. To me singles'/student wards have mostly all members who are at the same stage in life, roughly. Its a lot of the same. Whatever. I want a ward with a Primary and Youth, and older people who have been through most of their lives and like to offer random pieces of advice. So, upon returning home I will most likely attend a family ward and just deal with people questioning why I'm doing what I'm doing. That won't be a new experience for me anyway. Its the idea that bothers me. I'd like to think that it doesn't especially matter as long as I attend Church. Perhaps it really doesn't, and I'm just paranoid. We'll see.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-27491069.post-1146761422116736182006-05-04T12:50:00.000-04:002006-05-04T12:50:00.000-04:00PS- the bi-racial thing does worry me a little. O...PS- the bi-racial thing does worry me a little. Only because I do not want people to see anything but the wonderful husband that I have. I know that in so many ways I got the lucky end of the deal in marrying Arwin, and that he has to put up with a lot from me. I also am afraid of comments from people who will assume I adopted a child because their skin color may be different than mine. However, I think my children will have a rich heritage and will know that they come from an exciting background on both sides. I think that Arwin and I are blessed to have been brought together by God, and am proud of our relationship. We have found several Filipino's living in Utah, and hope that we can gain many friends there. After all, what fun is the weekend without a good Karaoke Party?Marenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13966671147913653475noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-27491069.post-1146760282258692592006-05-04T12:31:00.000-04:002006-05-04T12:31:00.000-04:00Nancy,I will miss you too. Your comment about dri...Nancy,<BR/>I will miss you too. Your comment about driving is funny, because that is one of the reasons I was excited to come to New York. I hated car breakdowns, accidents, etc. Rebecca and I have had conversations about the fact that we now know how to walk and use public transportation, so the buses in Salt Lake City will not seem so crazy. Rebecca and I plan to walk and grocery shop with one of the push carts from New York, partially just to get looks! I do worry about the cost of gas and commuting, and like how much reading I get done on the subway. If it weren't for the darn nausea of pregnancy, I probably would not be so excited to leave the subway behind. I do love public transit. Utah is getting well on its way with the commuter trains, so that is good. <BR/>I worry about the property taxes and all as well, and know that owning a house has a lot of difficulties to it. Living in the city has had its advantages. I also forgot to mention how much I will miss really good bagels! Not to mention your sunday school lessons!Marenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13966671147913653475noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-27491069.post-1146757119747812892006-05-04T11:38:00.000-04:002006-05-04T11:38:00.000-04:00yeah, my first comment! I guess this shows that m...yeah, my first comment! I guess this shows that more than just one New Yorker does things other than work at the office! And as for the .99 menu, in some places that still works, but the Wendy's by my school jacked up the price to $1.29. That is the problem when you go to school across the Empire State Building.Marenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13966671147913653475noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-27491069.post-1146755810490993042006-05-04T11:16:00.000-04:002006-05-04T11:16:00.000-04:00Do I get to be the first to leave a comment? Cool...Do I get to be the first to leave a comment? Cool!<BR/><BR/>I don't have much to write, other than I always paid $0.99 at Wendys, until they closed the one near my office.<BR/><BR/>And just because Michael McClain flopped on Broadway, doesn't make him any less of a superstar.JDhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09480140305236527992noreply@blogger.com